Sometimes, we don't understand ourselves too well. We need specific people in our life to show us.. to get us well accustomed with the various qualities that add to our personality and the dimensions to our soul.
Some people tend to enhance these aspects, a few others struggle to conceal them. All that you can do is, know people in your life, don't judge them, understand them, to realise what they are and they want from you.
When you come across a new feeling or emotion, its more or less because, somebody helps you to realise that you possess those characteristics.
Like.... You know that you can fall in love, only when somebody loves you.
You get angry only when somebody is capable of making you angry.
You laugh or cry, be happy or sad, enthused or lethargic..
At most of the instances, there are certain people near and dear to you who help you feel the change. Somebody needs to touch you, touch your soul, for you to realise that there actually exists one. As if, it has been there for ages, unnoticed and numb... and one day, you seem to lose the numbness.
People who have gone through rough patches in their lives, find offence in somebody wanting to know them. It feels dreadful to find that somebody can actually show you what you pertain to. Its okay to be resentful once in a while. Its okay to enclose all your frustrations and desires into a chest, lock them away in the inaccessible depths of your memories and throw the key in the ocean of your heart. All that really and truly matters is, if somebody finds the key, don't resist unlocking yourself. Let your wounds heal, because only the ones who intend to stay for long, will take pains to actually dive into your heart, and stay there.. without drowning!
So let go, Take a chance...
